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Anything Non-Dog Related / OMG! : ' (
« on: August 28, 2007, 05:19:32 pm »
ok.  so all of you are well aware of my situation with my doctor.  well, hubby and i agreed i would see him ONE more time to see what happened and we'd go from there.  well, today was that one more time.  i went in at 9:05 for my 9:15 apt. and he wasn't even there.  not until 9:30 did he walk through the door and came in without any equipment or anything in the room that he needed.  i agreed to be open about talking to him more about getting induced, etc, as my hubby said i was just over reacting from all the hormone changes.  yeah.  that didn't happen, because my doctor didn't remember anything about it!!  i was supposed to get a pelvic exam today and set a firm date for the induction.  according to him, i'm ONLY 35 weeks?!?!  he didn't do a pelvic, he didn't do anything except check her heartbeat again.  the baby / i haven't been checked in almost a month now regardless of the fact i keep bringing up to him that i only feel her move about 1-3 times a day, IF THAT!  he doesn't realize i'm supposed to be 38 weeks along (though my US says i'm not due until the 21/24 of sept, but the radiologist said it could be up to 3 weeks off), nor does he remember anything about me!  even with my charts RIGHT in front of his face.  he was acting super loopy again today, and told me the same thing i've heard the past 3 times now.  "well, you'll be 36 weeks next week, so we'll do a pelvic and we'll see what's going on and i'll tell you when everything will be about ready to be over with"...  it's the exact same phrase EVERY week, and i'm always at the same week (35 weeks along for almost a month now ???).  i even told the doctor "but i'm supposed to be 38 weeks along this week!"  (yes, i kind of snapped, but COME ON!) to which he replied, well the further you get the smaller you'll measure, but you're 35 weeks along right now...  hubby went pale and then he turned purple.  literally.  he's irate.  i'm so over the both of them (hubby and doctor), i told hubby i wanted a new doctor, to which he replied he's going to call my dr and talk to him and then he'll call tricare.  i snapped again and told him i didn't want this loony bin to deliver maya, and definately not to do a partial on me and bluntly asked him, "what happens if because of his lack of memory he kills one of us!!"  hubby's attitude kind of changed then and the longer after my apt. it got, the madder he got.  my mom was waiting for a date so she could get vacation to come up here and help, but now that's out the window.  she flipped when i told her what all was going on. 

anybody near east point atl have a good ob/gyn recommendation that isn't too far away?!?!

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General Board for Big Dogs with Big Paws / *IT* came home with hubby
« on: August 25, 2007, 10:28:23 pm »
(according to hubby) he found said *IT* last night along the interstate 20 while on his way home.  contained in this package of about 20 pounds is quite a bit of trouble.  it is red, with beady little eyes that seem to have a distant stare, like it's looking into your stomach for food.  it has an exasperating amount of energy.  it's quite short with a longer body and these stringy little legs.  it's not shy.  it came barging through my door and all over my house the second it got here.  it likes to poop ON beds.  i found that out within ten minutes of meeting it.  it is apparently a boy, because of the humping that seems to happen to everything in my house if you don't keep an eye on *IT.*  it likes to eat random things.  in fact, it will eat anything.  and everything.  it will not leave food alone, even after three bowls.  it will not walk on the grass in the back yard...  but it will on the grass in the front yard.  i can imagine how *it* got away or even why someone may have dumped it, as the second the door opens, he's gone but is like a boomerang and just comes back eventually.  not to mention his non existent manners.  it jumps, and runs over everything, including people and computers.  and tables.  and everything else from 4 foot down.  as said before, it has literally no matters.  husband deemed said *it* "bull" on his drive home.  aiden quickly changed it to "bull sit" (say that fast and you'll know exactly what he calls him) in a desperate attempt to get him to calm down.  i call him "it" or "thing" because i have no idea what "it" is or is supposed to be, except that i can imagine it would be considered a dog or maybe a science experiment.  with all this energy if i could contain it i would be running marathons my whole life until my body just gave out.  i'm hoping to find *it's* home soon, my sanity is running very short, or that *it* at least calms down and will sit still for just long enough for me to recuperate from my experience with him and figure out what to do. 

pictures will be here as soon as i find my camera again.  hopefully before that happens we'll have found *it's* home.  (someone save me!)

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so i go in today for my check up, and once again am in there for FIVE minutes.  ok, so why did i bother going?  i have to PAY to park every time i go, and if i'm just going to do a "hey how are you" why bother...?  anywho, he said he's going to do a pelvic next week to see what's going on (first time in  almost a month that he's checked me) which is ok with me because i'd like to know when my body starts to get ready.  THEN, my hubby misunderstands the doctor when he says "i'll tell you next week when you will be ready" as the doctor saying that he wanted to induce me (what i think he really meant, is about when to expect the baby).  so then hubby blurts out "so we're going to induce her?"  and i just about holler out "NO!" because i really don't want to be induced.  my deliveries are really easy on me and i'd rather not mess with a good thing esp. since i don't think my body is physically ready yet.  (won't it make things hurt really bad if your body just ISN'T ready yet??) the doctor ignores what i said and told hubby we'll set up an induction date next week, which made me even MORE uncomfortable about the whole darn situation.  so now, hubby has volunteered me for an induction and a partial.  i really wonder if they realize how hard it is on  your body for all of this to happen..  i very well might just start screaming "NO NO NO!" next week if they keep pushing this stuff on me.

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ok so i found a freaky program that will make you look older than you are.  i don't have any pics of me on this comp, i'm working on that right now, but here's the ones i have of the guys.  brandon's looks like something off of stargate, tristan's didn't come out so good, but OMG aiden's sent chills down my back.  thought some of us might be interested in laughing at what we come up with.

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Anything Non-Dog Related / pregnancy update
« on: August 16, 2007, 09:07:27 pm »
i went to the doctor yesterday, and it was a very freaky check up.  he didn't do much, the baby apparently flipped back around (and boy did i know EXACTLY when she did that, because it hurt like crazy) and has changed her mind about coming  ???  he only did a heartbeat check, tummy check, and measured me (i was in there for 5 minutes).  i asked about a tubal or partial hysterectomy, and he agreed to do a partial without asking me ANY questions (why, what i knew about it or anything) and didn't offer any insight or information.  i was fine with that yesterday, because i always do my own research anyways, but today i'm super nervous about agreeing to it b/c i can't find any good sites about it.  i read that it's not a good procedure to have, for a number of reasons, but honestly haven't found anything good about it where it's concerned with someone my age.  all the sites say to just get a full one done b/c the good / bad are better with it than they are with a partial or just not get it at all.  i'm so confused about it.  my dr didn't even take the time to tell me what procedure he uses, or anything.  anywho, when i got measured my tummy measured 34cm, BUT, on the 19th of last month i measured 32cm.  shouldn't i be 36cm now since it's been a month???  is that a big deal, or does it vary?  i'm so confused now  :-\

p.s.  if anyone has had a partial done, i have tons of questions you might be able to answer!

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Anything Non-Dog Related / i'm backkkkkkkkk
« on: August 12, 2007, 07:16:37 pm »
hey everybody!  sorry it's been so long.  it's been a CRAZY past two months.  we moved to mississippi just to be told that we got up and moved for nothing and that we WEREN'T being relocated.  we just moved into the new house on the 1st, and were told on the 3rd that they actually did decide to move us, and it will now be 30-90 days.  i couldn't be more angry at the army.  the whole time in mississippi was a disaster.  long story short, hubby's family and i did NOT get along.  hubby thought it was me.  yeah.  anywho. 

i was going to go home to have the baby (which we found out is going to be a girl, and we're going to name her maya) but when i finally got back to atlanta to set up housekeeping so that when she was born we could go home and chillax, i started having a few problems.  long story short, i was supposed to have her the end of october / first week of november originally, which got changed to the middle of september, which has NOW changed to "it could be any day now."  none of the doctors quite know what she's got on her mind, as she's really eager to get out one day, and i'll be having contractions every hour apart and she's ready to go, and then it'll stop like nothing and i'll go without a single one for a day or two and then i'll have another day where it's h*ll on earth for me all day and all night just to once again have something click and it stops again.  the doctor told us that he's just waiting for a call and will be there shortly after we are (we only live about 5 minutes from the hospital now).  today and tomorrow we'll be going in for a bunch of stuff trying to figure out what's going on, how old she REALLY is, etc etc etc since there's a big debate that the doctors chose the right due date to start with.  the really odd thing is that all of our doctors have told me i don't look more than about 4-5 months pregnant, and are quite confused by everything.  any advice on what to think, anyone??

on a sour note, i had to rehome caine, sheeba and diesel.  diesel went to a home that could give him more one on one attention that he really needed.  he lives here in atlanta now, and is doing very well.  i'm waiting on pictures from him, which should be here sometime in the near future.  his new family is awesome, with no kids and he even still has a little furr-buddy (pom) to hang out with.  rehoming him was truly awful for me and him both.  i kept it together until his new daddy had to pick him up and put him in the truck because he would not leave my side.  diesel even went so far as to growl and show teeth at his new dad, which is when i knew it was the right family b/c the man just comforted him and was really great about understanding.  i could tell he was upset, and visa versa.  they e-mail me weekly most times just to give me an update.  i think i cried for three weeks straight, and it still really hurts to think about it, but at least i still keep in touch with his new family and they have offered for me to come visit.  honestly, i don't think i could do it.

while in mississippi, sheeba and caine "turned vicious" at hubby's family's house.  we didn't have a choice but to rehome them with a mutual friend of ours (together) because of the fact we were staying at his family's house and i could not find anywhere to stay or board them because they waited until the last week of june and there was nothing open until the end of july, which was "unacceptable."  i swear it was pre-plotted.  this is what started our whole fight with his family, because after i did this, they started doing the same thing towards axle and i later found out that hubby's cousin was taunting them through the fence.  even more ironically they backed off of axle when he chased would-be robbers out of the house, yard, and jumped the fence after them.  he kept not only hubby's grandma safe, but also kept the thieves out of the new appliances / new furniture that was being stored at her house.  now, they "love" him and have even bought him treats when before all they did was tell him "go away" and talk crap about him.  i can't believe how forgiving dogs are, because i sure would have let the thieves in.  i have already let hubby know i don't want his family anywhere near me ever again.  on a good note, i still do talk to our friend and sheeba and caine live on the river and get to play all day with their kids and go swimming, etc. 

on the first of this month, packed and ready to go, my truck also let me down.  at the most inopportune time.  my brake line busted (supposedly due to the road salt that i encountered two years ago ???) and let me run through a red light.  my SIL says to me, "...you know that light is red, right?" to which i calmly replied, "yes"...  then she asked, "do you intend on stopping???" and i said "no" and got the typical why, and i stated quite bluntly, "because my breaks just went out."  her face was priceless.  luckily, it was in our hometown which is very quiet as far as traffic goes.  unluckily, the only person i almost hit was the sheriff himself ha ha.

anywho, enough rambling.  i just wanted to give everyone an update and ask how everyone is!  i've missed you all!

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General Board for Big Dogs with Big Paws / come on!
« on: May 23, 2007, 01:18:54 am »
well.  apparently the 1st sergeant "forgot" to tell us when out report date is.  well, now that he remembered our report date is not even 12 days away!  come on!  give it a rest!  how am i supposed to find somewhere to live, move, etc, before the 5th!  this is so frustrating.  i have no idea what to do or where to start.  they're not going to move our stuff, we have to pack it and put it in storage and they'll move it from there in about a month or month and a half.  i have a doctors appt. coming up, i won't be here.  everything else is up to me, because hubby is going to be super busy clearing the battalion.  we have someone who's buying the house as soon as we move, closing has been pushed up to the 6th as of today.  we don't even know if hubby is going to get leave before we leave, or even after we move right now!  what a mess!

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esp those with multiple children.  my first two pregnancies were great.  no discomfort, etc, until the last week or so.  well, not this time.  up until now it's been great.  heck, it's been so easy i didn't even realize i was pregnant at first. 

anywho.  i was told i have round ligament pain, but omg.  my tummy hurts all the time, but only in a half circle from mid side on one side around the bottom and then up to the mid way up my side again.  it hurts when i'm sitting, it hurts when i'm laying down.  it hurts when i get up.  it hurts to walk, or stand, it even hurts when i have to go pee.  i don't want to eat, because if i eat even a bite too much my tummy goes from just a throb to a full blown bending over for an hour b/c it hurts b/c of the tiny bit of extra pressure.  same thing if i drink more than a sip at a time.  it literally hurts to take too deep of a breath.  i'm having to limit my driving to where i only do it when i HAVE to b/c it makes me so uncomfortable.  it's not like a little dull ache, it's constant and feels like i've been running the entire week without even stopping for a minute.   i thought to take some cramp medicine, but don't know if i can now that i'm pregnant and midol, etc, are for period cramps.  it's been like this for a week now, and hasn't gotten any better or worst, but makes life very uncomfortable.  i can't pick the kids up b/c it hurts me, nothing.  vacuuming / sweeping has even become torture.  i can't even put anything on my tummy if it's heavier than a blanket b/c i'll end up puking or hurting worst b/c of it.  even a coke bottle sends me over the edge b/c of the weight.

i haven't gained a lot of weight.  actually, it's evening out b/c i'm losing some weight everywhere else, but gaining it on my tummy.  i still fit in my normal clothes, except that my pants are too big now.  i haven't even been overly active.  i've been "chillaxin" because i didn't want to push it and end up hurting, but i still didn't avoid this.  about twice a day, my whole tummy also tightens up, and on top of my normal tummy pain makes it all but impossible to do anything until it's stopped (usually last about 30-45 seconds).  like contractions, but they never get stronger or more frequent.

has anyone else had this happen, and did you find anything to do about it???  i'm making an appt. for this week or next, first available one that i can make, but wanted to ask if anyone else has had this happen to them.

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well..  i just found out we're getting...reas signed...   ???   apparently, hubby got told today that we are "probably" getting reassigned to a new recruiting station in our home town.  talk about out of the blue.  we find out next week or the week after if they're sending us, and then if we do get reassigned we'll be moved within 4 months...?  i guess it would make things a ton easier, but it's kind of a shock since we just bought this house a year ago, being told we'd be here (no doubt) for at least 3 years.  i guess i learned my lesson!

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i don't know how many of you know about us having problems with caine.  we CAN'T keep him in our yard.  every time we fix one problem he starts another, he either goes over under or THROUGH the fence (literally he chewed a hole through it).  well, all was honky dory with him escaping into our neighbors yard b/c she didn't mind (she even said she liked having him in the yard and felt more secure with him there)  and he acted like a gentleman.  until today.  i put caine outside and less than 5 minutes later i heard barking and walked out JUST in time to yell at caine and make him turn from biting the neighbor's dad's face.  the guy is about 6 ft tall and caine was jumping to get his face.  unprovoked.  i guess he sees her yard as his, but i can't have a dog act like this, unprovoked, and i have NO idea what i should do or what's causing this behavior.  when i saw what was going on i yelled at caine, he turns mid jump and runs back into our yard (under her fence) and goes straight inside, tail wagging like he was proud of himself.  i've been keeping him inside all but pottying him a few times a day, but it's really not fair to him or us.  i'm at a loss of what to do, the guy chewed my butt out horribly and wouldn't even listen to the fact that i'm TRYING to fix out yard, but it's  hard to do with just me here, pregnant, with 2 kids.  esp. when i can't get in touch with the land lord who owns that house to ask how he wants to go about replacing the fence line.  actually, i never even got a chance to get past "I" before he started his ranting again.  i know he has good reason, but i wish he would have given me a chance to talk.  my neighbor just stood there and didn't even back me up when i said i had made several attempts to fix the fence, just let him continue to chew my butt off.  shows me how much of a friend she is.  finally i just walked off.  caine's behavior just keeps getting worst, no matter what we do.  he even bit brandon's hand, leaving several puncture wounds and it was gushing.  all because hubby reached over the fence when he was outside.  brandon walks him most every morning, but the more we walk him the more hyped up he gets around the fence.  i'm not sure why.  he's never had anyone tease him through the fence, and he is awesome with the AC guy (when he came out here b/c someone said our dog was running loose, which was a false claim).  he's fine with the construction workers who replaced the telephone pole and was wagging his tail, playing with them every chance he got.  i'm at a loss of what to do, so if anyone has any advice please tell me!  because of the neighbor's dad's threats, we think he's going to call AC out here for a "vicious dog."  although we don't want to i'm starting to think it would be best just to find him a new home where he has more room and less people around and AC won't be able to confiscate him.   :'(

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Anything Non-Dog Related / need kid advice...
« on: May 14, 2007, 06:13:24 am »
i need advice again  :-\  i'd like to decorate aiden's room (.....again.... since he destroyed everything i put in there LAST time) and i'm looking for ideas of things i can LITERALLY make aiden-proof.  for example, a night light that has a screw that goes into the middle of the socket where the cover would normally screw in, etc.  things i can put in there, that serve a purpose (or decorate) but there's NO chance he can get it off the wall, or out the socket, etc.  i was looking also at figurines that i might be able to put in there since i saw a program on animal planet where the woman had a really nice house with nick nacks and was raising two leopard kittens (i think) and when asked how she did it, she stated she glued it down.  hm..  maybe, but i wanted to get advice from you guys first!  i had wall stickers on the walls, but one night (yeah, at night) he ripped them off the walls and they all became casualties of aiden, also.

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General Board for Big Dogs with Big Paws / mother's day video
« on: May 11, 2007, 11:17:05 pm »
for all the people on here who have sons, i'm sure you'll appreciate this lmao

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=758580763

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well.  today i found out that somehow or another diesel and ONLY diesel came up with hook worms   ???  because diesel has been dewormed 4 times in the past 6 months (trying to figure out why he just isn't gaining weight the vet's only answer is that he has worms that just aren't showing up on the fecal yet.  his idea was that diesel "must have" a whip worm infestation or "something."  i think the worm medicine did more harm than good) i told the vet i wanted to look for a holistic way of getting rid of them.  reason being, diesel gets diahhrea HORRIBLY and stops eating, and acts really lethargic after worming medicine and i want to see if i can find a better way of going about this.  does anyone have any ideas?

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Games & Jokes / attack dog for your computer, too funny
« on: May 08, 2007, 08:02:07 am »
i downloaded this thinking it would help me know when my kids were terrorizing my computer.  yeah.  right, now it's a game ha ha.  anywho, it's a "guard dog" that attacks the screen barking and "scratching" it whenever someone touches a key or your mouse.  i thought it was too funny not to share so here it is.

http://games.ncbuy.com/downloads/title_10003.html

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Anything Non-Dog Related / question for all the fish keepers...
« on: May 08, 2007, 03:35:58 am »
after our first fry, we lost all but one baby, which is getting quite big now.  we even lost the mom.  i can only assume it was b/c of bad positioning of the aquarium (it was in a very loud / active area whereas the main tank is in an active area, but out of the way).

ANYWHO.  today, i caught our GORGEOUS male OB peacock "doing his thing" with our female OB peacock.  i wanted to ask, since they're hybrids, are they sterile?  i'm so excited, but i'd rather know now if nothing is going to come of it rather than waiting a month or so just to find out one of them isn't "working."  thanks!

supposed mom is the black and white on bottom


supposed dad

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