I can't tell you how helpful you all have been with all of your suggestions. My family and I will practice your tips, especially the holding of the mouth. I just didn't want PETA knocking down my door. I also walk around the house proudly proclaiming that I, NOT HER am the dominant female and thats just the way it is sister! Of course I get this "you look ridiculous" look on her face, but thats ok. I must say she is one beautiful creature (I will post a pic soon) and deserves the best I can give her. Someone noted that she didn't have a very good start out in life and I need to remember that. Again thanks for the replies.