OK I feel like an idiot. I was so paranoid about Gossy pottying in her crate, that I was waking her up about every 2 hours to go out to go potty. Then, she would be awake and she would cry for a half hour before falling back to sleep. So the other night, I was talking to Mel, and she said, don't give food or water for like 5 hours before bed, and she should be fine. So I did that, and put her in bed, and didn't wake her up (I did peek in on her about every half hour-I'm VERY OC, in case any of you haven't figured that out yet). She slept 8 hours, and she is behaving like a little angel now!
Her attitude is cheery, she is calm during the day, and I get to sleep! I was sleep depriving her!