I'm so sorry, I know all to well what you're going through (I experienced one in July of this year). I know there's not much anyone can say to make you feel better (but as you've stated) sometimes it's for the best if it wasn't meant to be...
I tried to take the positives out of it. For instance, at least now you know you're able to get pregnant (Eric and I had been trying for about a year and a half when it happened), and please also know how common misscarriage is. It's crazy how many people go through it!
It also helped us a lot to grieve over the loss of the baby, to put some closure on the situation.
Please accept my condolences, if you ever want to talk about it please feel free to PM me. Someone else on BPO helped me through it too...
Take care,
KellyÂ