The News.....

 wow that is a supprising twist! wasnt expecting to hear that! congrats on the upcomming baby! i think it's great that you were able to pay for her to be on pain meds. that was realy good of you, even though it wasnt how we wanted it to turn out.

Thank you all for all your congratulation s, the adoption should be final in just a few weeks at most, and yeah I know it's gonna be rough but I am ready for it. I never had BIG "I wanna be a dr when i grow up"type of aspirations, however I knew I wanted to be a mommy and as soon as my first was born I was done for I wanted nothing more outta life then to be a good mom and have a "good sized" family.

And to be honest I can see myself having at least one more( but I wanna be responsible about things so I will wait and see financially how we are doing in the next 2 years before deciding on more.)

And yes- my son is still not on "speaking terms" with me at this point.LoL

Ive been a bad girl and havent been posting lately, but I have popped in and tried to catch up on things Ive missed here and there.. that said.. Im not passing up this one.. 
First of all Im really sorry about the Dane baby.. things usually happen for a reason and it sounds like this is no exception!!
I myself am no stranger to peoples comments through the years whenever they discovered I was going to have another child. When I was just pregnant with my third which would have meant a 3 1/2 yr old, 2 1/2 yr old and a new born, I was told at 7 wks pregnant that it was twins   
ok..no problem.. I always felt the same way as you.. Id be a professional mommy.. THEN when the twins were 1 1/2 I had my 'ooopps' baby (though I dont dare tell him that) so I had 5 kids under 5 yrs old... unfortunately by the time the little guy was 1 I had had it was 'daddy' and decided to venture out on my own as a 'happy mom' instead of an 'unhappy wife'.. it doesnt end there.. I was very fortunate to meet a wonderful man who couldnt have chidren of his own that was willing to take on a wife and 5 kids under 8.. so the story goes.. Guess what? Apparently he had just never been with a rabbit before and we have since had 2 more children together.. (on purpose) but I am now triple tied to avoid any more ooopps.. enough is enough
So needless to say I got alot of "oh my!! 5?" "Wow 6?" "You're kidding me 7?"
"dont you have a TV?" from friends,family and strangers.. and it also happens to be one of the reasons I havent been around BPO lately..forget about the 2 Danes, they're the easy part..
Good luck with your adventure..Im sure it will all go fine..It only takes ONE to drive you crazy.. the extras just make it more interesting..

Yes we have been slowly telling people the news and the reactions are great... my aunt got really excited and then stopped and got really sad looking and I asked her what that was about and she told me she expressed both feelings in case i did or did not want to be pregnant again! LoL. My mother in law who has 8 kids barely a year apart and now is up to 15 grandkids and she is NOT happy about anymore, says we need to stop cause she cant afford x-mas presents at this rate.But in all fairness I told her long ago just not to buy my kids anything if it was such a big deal.I don't care I am psyched and we go Thursday for the ultrasound- I can't wait.