Bear and I are moving on....

So he has another girlfriend    We broke up like 2 weeks ago..he claims they got together a week ago...YEAH RIGHT!! We were together over ten years and he doesn't understand why I am not happy he is moving on!! UGH UGH UGH!! His visitation with Bear is officially OVER. He has only come to see her once in the two weeks anyway..too busy with the new gf I guess. I am disappointed/angry/sad and a little empty 

you know ...walking down the street i am sure that Bear will be a guy magnet...lol.. ...my sister wants to walk my two so she can catch a date...(granted i would never let her... she is the one with that jacka** boyfriend...Jo sh... i am sure you may remember the postings i had about him!!

It's really hard I know, especially when you find out that the jerk you thought you loved is a slime ball.  Just remember that you are better off, you've got Bear and he doesn't, and that's the way it's going to stay.    Take it nice and slow, you've got all the time in the world now to meet new people, and you never know where you're going to find the next Mr. Right, or even Mr. Right Now. 

Congrats on getting to stay in the house, what I'd do is a little bit of redecorating!  Splash a little color on those old walls of yours, buy a throw rug, change your window dressings around, maybe go to Ikea, or even an outdoor market for some funky new/old furniture.  You'd be surprised how much that'll make you feel better about everything!