Meeting MORE boys? For the love of Pete! Maybe I should get them a pet skunk!
She's only starting HS this fall?
YOU
MUST GET HER IN A PUPPY PROGRAM WITH BOYS!!!!
Listen carefully to me now.
I am an ex-HS teacher, and I'm telling you a sneaky trick that will save you and your daughter UNTOLD teenage angst. Teenage boys are tricky creatures at the best of times. However, my professional observation of them leads me the conclusion that boys who have pets (particularly dogs, rabbits or horses, and no, I don't know why) they are especially attached to are just plain much NICER boys. They're more respectful of others people's space, they're more aware of other people's feelings, and MOST IMPORTANTLY for your peace of mind as a parent...they understand the inevitable consequences of breeding behaviors! And if they're attached enough to their dog to be in a group, they're smart enough to know that they're not OLD enough to deal with the consequences.
THIS IS EXACTLY THE KIND OF BOY YOU WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO ACQUIRE FOR A BOYFRIEND!! You need to start looking right now for your local 4H or AKC dog program! You can go an talk to the adult leaders of the group, with your new puppy as a reason, and ask subtle questions about the other kids. And your secret weapon is thaty you'll have exactly the kind of puppy that will attract a boy of the desired type, too--big, but gentle.
This summer is your perfect window of opportunity!!!!
You must get your soon to be high schooler involved with the selected dog group as soon as she arrives at your house for the summer. (Make the puppy's best interests your whole argument. Don't say a word about boys! If she's really recalcitrant, say she might meet a girl to hang out with at whatever passes for a mall by you.) You want her to form an attachment to a boy who lives near YOU--and who with any luck, won't be driving yet...
If you are both lucky and very, very sneaky, she will start high school with a boyfriend who lives 70 miles away! Give her a cell phone with a lot of free evening minutes so she can talk to to this wonderous creature every night! Such a boyfriend's very EXISTENCE will reduce the attractiveness of those dangerous senior boys in her eyes. Letting her spend significant amounts of her weekends at your house with him is a small price to pay to keep her away from those older, and far less savory, boys.
I have seen this sneak attack worked with GREAT success; but you must be very, very sneaky, and don't let on for a minute that a nice boyfriend is your objective!!